It is the time of the year again when you — all of you in the Nation — hear about weddings almost every other day. Unless you are a bit too non-social, chances are that there would be at least 1 wedding that you have to attend in the season.
I, the old one, have a few friends graduating and exiting the Bachelor’s league and have till now attended a few weddings, have missed one and am all set to attend another one soon and all this in the last 15-20 days.
Was just wondering what decides this season.
and then started wondering what decides the decision of marriage itself!
I mean when does a person think — ‘yeah, i should get married now’ or is it that it just happens when things fall into place automatically.
or is it that when you find the person you think that you can spend your life with, you decide.
or is it a function of many many variables — person, age, career, financial.
Just plain wondering — yeah, i know, most of my friends are done– and that too can be one of the variables!, if not by your function, then by someone else’s whose function is a variable for your function — and this too builds up. Now all your friends are married, why are you not?!
certainly not right now, certainly not planned, certainly not uncertain.
(still have a few friends i can take refuge under)